- Make sure that it is something that you, yourself, would want or truly appreciate, if it was you receiving it.
- Practicality is high up on the hierarchy of needs for this subject, so it would be a good thing if it was made well and is useful.
- Choose a gift that will make the receiver remember you with a smile when they use it or better yet choose a gift that makes you smile that you gave it (hint: the joy of giving...).
- Flowers wither, but sometimes, only flowers are the right gift.
- Don't give yourself a hernia by pursuing a 'unique' gift or 'the perfect gift.'
- Wrap it yourself (it's a great skill to have, like packing luggage correctly) and do take time in doing so. Real boxes, paper tissue, wrapping paper, and ribbons (red ribbon when in doubt) are a joy for the receiver.
- Make sure to personally write a note or dedication (don't type it) to go with it. Make it legible. Also, do not just put "To:" and "From."
- Once a gift is given. Let go of it.
